This week is about politics.
It’s about building a badass/non-boring/versatile wardrobe.
So what do I know about fashion?
Not a whole lot. In general, I have a love/hate relationship with shopping/fashion/clothes.
So here’s what I DO know about fashion (aside from my newfound knowledge on how to rock a cape):
1. Getting dressed shouldn’t be stressful.
2. Shopping shouldn’t leave you feeling guilty.
3. When you live with someone else, not all of the closets in the house are for just YOUR clothes.
4. Holding onto things you “might fit in again one day” or that you’re keeping for sentimental value (but would never wear) might just be a waste of closet space.
So I decided that it’s time to get rid of everything that’s too small, from LF/Forever 21/other places where someone who is almost 30 shouldn’t be shopping, and things that are just too hard to work into everyday wear.
*Note — some of these links are actually “affiliate links,” meaning that if you sign up, we both get free credits (dollarz) to that site. Thank you and you’re welcome
The Purge: I made 3 piles: Give Away, Throw Away, Sell.
For the stuff I decided was in great condition and still had value, I ordered a free shipping bag from Like Twice, sent it all back to them, and they emailed me a week later saying that I had a $90 credit to their site for all of those clothes I was never going to wear anyway.
And then it was time to rebuild (a.k.a. “buy new shit,” a.k.a. THE FUN PART!)
I want the foundation of my wardrobe to be high-quality basics that are cut well, fit well, and go with whatever.
So I started with 3 v-neck T-shirts and 2 sleeveless tops from Everlane.
They use this cool fabric that doesn’t pill (which is awesome, because I wash and dry EVERYTHING, which is why I don’t usually buy nice things).
But considering the quality, these T’s are a steal @ $15.
2. Fun “Pop” Pieces:
I used my Like Twice credit to buy a few “fun” pieces that I knew would be great additions to my wardrobe this summer, but which wouldn’t necessarily be on trend after that.
No guilt here because I had free money, and got lots of stuff for it.
So Like Twice is BASICALLY like an online Buffalo Exchange without that awkward line and some girl chewing gum, telling you that they aren’t currently buying whatever you’re selling.
3. Investment Pieces:
THIS IS THE PART THAT MAKES ME NERVOUS.
I don’t like spending more than $30 on something unless I KNOW I’m going to wear it, like, all the time.
And I’m still not sure that buying a “big girl blazer” from Saks (It was Joie, more dollars than I want to admit, and I was in a pinch for a speaking engagement, so I totally splurged) was a great idea.
In general, shopping in stores makes me nervous because I always feel really pressured by salespeople to buy things I don’t necessarily want.
So I found the most badass, next-best thing: A personal styling service called Stitchfix.
How it works:
Based on a style profile I filled out when I signed up, they send me five things to try on every month.
What I don’t, I send back.
Stitchfix charges my card for whatever I keep. Everyone feels happy and like they made good decisions, and even though I consider these “investment pieces,” they’re all in the $60 price range, which means out of the three months I’ve been stitchfix’in, I’ve spent way less than that one Joie blazer from Saks.
Not to hate on the blazer. The blazer is fine. But mostly it’s a lesson.
So, I’m STILL working on building my big girl wardrobe…one piece at a time.
Know of any great online personal shopping or wardrobe trade sites?
Please share in the comments!
*Related: My lovely new friend Abigail who works over at LaunchPad has AMAZING style and has agreed to take me on a shopping trip to style me IRL. So I’m super excited about that and will post an update after:)